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Deeks & His Wonder Women: Part Two

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Connecting with Strength

In the previous installment, we explored the childhood origins of Marty Deeks’ attraction to strong women. We discussed how his motivation to avoid painful memories, and his fear of repeating the violent relationship of his parents, cause him to seek out brave women who offer a comforting contrast to his mother:  women who can protect him and themselves. Today we’ll examine the ways this trait has exhibited itself in his adult relationships, at least the ones we know about. A Procession of Powerful Women Given the negative examples provided by his parents, Deeks’ attraction to gutsy women makes sense. But it’s more than physical strength that draws him- strength of character is just as important. His pursuit of such strength would naturally make fierce Kensi incredibly attractive to him, but she is not the only example we’ve seen. We know that he had a relationship with his LAPD handler Jess Traynor in "Human Traffic." We only see Jess in one scene, but she appears quite capable; we can assume that she must have been tough and tenacious in order to rise through the ranks of her male-dominated field. In "Sacrifice," Deeks makes “a connection” with Eva Espinoza, the Loreto, Mexico Chief of Police. Eva gets his attention when she bests Kensi in a fistfight, but really piques his curiosity when she explains that she took her job because “everyone else was terrified.” He tilts his head in interest at this statement; he’s drawn to her because of her courage, her “warrior spirit.” These three women have all been shaped by past trauma in their lives. Kensi’s father died when she was young and then she lived on the streets for almost a year. Jess survived a kidnapping attempt that killed her cousin; she went on to become a cop, driven to take down criminals like the human traffickers responsible for her cousin’s death. Eva’s brother was shot and killed by cartel crossfire, which motivated her to risk her life to seek justice. Despite being tested by tragedy, they all persevered. Their ability to overcome past trauma, to be strong despite or maybe because of it, no doubt resonated with Deeks. He may have felt like he had something in common with them, having survived his own childhood trauma. Perhaps he saw them as a contrast to his mother, a victim of violence who may not have shown the same ability to overcome her own traumatic experiences. We don’t know what happened to her after he shot his dad, but it’s very possible that she met a sad fate despite being freed from her violent husband.


There are other examples of strong women in Deeks’ life. There was the unnamed previous partner who caused him to swear off female partners. There was crazy ex-girlfriend Erin with her “anger slash jealousy slash trust slash more anger issues.” She might have been a little too feisty, threatening Deeks with a knife when he interviewed her in the bar in “Crimeleon.” He made borderline unprofessional comments about Callen’s super-spy, super-hot ex-wife Tracy in “Standoff.” He also seemed way too happy to have strong women fighting over him in “Sacrifice,” as shown by the glint of excitement in his eyes when Kensi and Eva confront one another in the boatshed.

And of course there’s powerful Hetty, who has served as a somewhat maternal figure in his life. She’s become his next of kin, literally standing in for his absent mom. Despite her size, gender, and age, Deeks never questions Hetty’s strength. We see it right from the start, for example in “Human Traffic” when he tells her he’d “like to see [LAPD] try” to get her to “bugger off” from interfering in their case.

A Celebration of Strength

Deeks’ easy and complete acceptance of such strength must be welcomed by these women, nearly all of whom are working in a male dominated field where they likely find themselves consistently underestimated. Even formidable Hetty is probably all too accustomed to having to take down her doubters, like she did with Hawaii Five-O Detective Danny Williams in “Touch of Death.” But Deeks doesn’t just accept the strength of the women around him, he celebrates it. He doesn’t hesitate to express his pride in their abilities and confidence in their character.

For example, in “Personal” he proclaims Kensi to be “not a real girl” but “like Wonder Woman.” In “Blye, K. Part 2,” he says about the man she is hunting for killing her father, “It sucks to be him.” In a subsequent scene, we get his famous “That’s my girl” line along with a small, proud smile when he hears how Kensi disarmed a man twice her size. He’s frantic with worry about her through the entire episode, but he always expresses complete confidence in her abilities. By the time we get to “The Frozen Lake,” he proudly tells the ghurka that his partner is simply “the bravest.”

imageIn “Blye, K.”, Deeks expresses his faith not just in Kensi’s strength but in her character, telling her he never- “Not for a second”- questioned whether she would have murdered her father’s teammate. He expresses similar faith in Jess in “Human Traffic,” never doubting her honesty and loyalty despite allegations of possible corruption. He also trusts Eva in “Sacrifice,” even though the rest of the team expresses their suspicions. In the end his instincts about them all are spot on.

Kensi-Deeks-HandToHandDeeks is never threatened by the strength these women possess. He remains confident in his ability to keep up, and is quite willing to challenge them. We see it right from Densi’s very first meetings in “Hand to Hand,” where Deeks is suspicious of Kensi’s Tracy and calls her bluff at Daniel Zuna’s house. In “Anonymous,” he turns the tables and makes her the butt of the undercover jokes (the former girl band member in need of plastic surgery). In a later example, in “Enemy Within,” he counters Kensi’s book smarts with his street smarts. In “The Fifth Man,” he expresses his concerns about Kensi’s plans to call Astrid, although in typical fashion, once she does, he offers her 100% support and encouragement to help her succeed. And, although he may fear Hetty’s letter opener, no one else comes close to teasing her the way he does with his “cheeky” comments.

Protective of All

Having said all this, Deeks has chosen his profession because he “wanted to protect people,” and he certainly is quick to defend women whether they are weak or strong. From traveling all the way to Romania to find Hetty in “Lange, H.”, to rescuing a homeless ex-client and her daughter in “Drive,” to saving the job of a retail clerk/part-time prostitute in “War Cries,” he never wavers in his drive to protect.

This motivation seems to have come directly from his childhood experiences and the desire to protect victims of violence like his mother, but there may be more to the story than that. Deeks first became a public defender before he made his way to law enforcement. We don’t yet know what inspired his initial career choice, or why he decided to change course, but we can assume that he found satisfaction as a police officer because it filled this long-held need to protect.

Deeks’ drive to protect sometimes gives us examples that reveal more of his personality. In one such case, when he loses his temper with Scarli in “Human Traffic,” we see him tap into the anger that his father once directed at him and his mother. Ironically this moment of fury comes in the service of defending Jess’ honor. In “Empty Quiver,” we get another revealing moment when he lets his guard down at the sight of the scientist who appears to have been beaten by terrorists, a scene that likely brought back painful childhood memories. This allows the bad guy to temporarily get the drop on him, a rare professional slip-up. Despite this incredibly strong urge to protect women, Deeks is rarely overprotective, something we’ll explore more in the last installment when we take a closer look at his relationship with Kensi.

Additional Questions

Next time we’ll examine how Deeks’ ability to embrace Kensi’s strength makes him the perfect partner for her both professionally and personally, and we’ll delve into the big changes that Season 5 has brought to his relationships. In the meantime, let’s continue the analysis:

  • How is it that Deeks is so able to accept people’s strength, to believe in them so fully? Would he have needed a positive role model when he was growing up to even see the possibilities, to understand that not all relationships are like his parents?
  • Is Monica in “Parley” an exception, a strong woman who was with Max? Or did her lack of smarts cancel out her boldness? Or, since she was an assignment, should she even enter into the discussion?
  • We haven’t talked about Deeks’ fondness for nurses. They don’t necessarily fit the Wonder Woman profile, but “they’re helpful and they’re caring,” sponge baths and all. Might they be another substitute for a mother who couldn’t look out for him?

Tell us your opinions in the Comments!

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Karen P.

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16 Comments on Deeks & His Wonder Women: Part Two

  1. Another great analysis.
    I just want to add one comment, specifically regarding crazy Erin. I think Deeks is looking for a woman who inspires his admiration or challenges him emotionally. The rest are just for having fun with. 365 days of fun, as he once described himself. Erin falls into the category of “fun” – until she turned out to be a little crazier than he bargained for. Same for Sylvia Gray (the woman mentioned in Personal, against whom he had to take out a restraining order) and also Monica, even though that udercover relationship was with Max not Deeks.

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    • Thanks Jan! I forgot about Sylvia- she definitely sounds like she’d have a few things in common with Erin. I’m guessing Deeks would rather err on the side of too feisty than not feisty enough, with the result being an occasional need for a restraining order. 😉

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  2. Another brilliant analysis. All the episode references had me searching back through my early morning brain cells to recall them all. Thanks. I am now awake. I do want to comment on Monica in “Parlay”. She had an out-of-control personality. He had no idea what she was going to do next and that rattled him, making me wonder if that reminded him of the uncertainty in his daily life as a child. One of the terrors of being the child of an alcoholic is the lack of stability, that constant need to be on guard for what is going to happen next. It brings fear and uncertainty. We know nothing about Deeks’ mother, but if she was in some ways similar to Monica in personality, it might explain his inability to deal with Monica on that assignment. However, even with that said, at the end he wanted to protect her and felt bad that she was injured. He didn’t get much support from Kensi during this op and that was sad to see and very confusing and disconcerting for Deeks.

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    • Thanks Sweet Lu! And wow, I love your observations about Monica. One of the reasons I disliked that episode was Kensi’s lack of support when he was clearly miserable with his situation. You’ve added a whole other layer to his emotions here which I really appreciate.

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  3. Another great analysis Karen!

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  4. Dr. Brenda // March 3, 2014 at 8:19 PM // Reply

    Great analysis. But… gotta take exception with the nurses don’t fit Wonder Woman profile. 🙂

    Who gives chemotherapy to children with cancer while supporting and encouraging parents/children through the terrible ordeal of hoping their child will survive, but having to go through 3 years of chemo first? Who looks after the teen in the ICU following a texting/driving MVC, running the life support machines while supporting and encouraging the parents who are waiting to see if their child will ever wake up? Who supports the 14-year-old girl in labor with her first baby? Who takes care of the mom whose baby was unexpectedly stillborn? Who looks after the woman dying of breast cancer, distraught at leaving her children behind? Who does the forensic evidence collection on sexual assault victims? Who looks after the people in handcuffs brought into the ER by police to be medically cleared before going to prison? The gunshot & stabbing victims? Who works in the prison infirmary? Who manages the pain of people dying in hospice? Who does the dressings on patients with burns?

    As a cop, Deeks would have spent countless hours in the ER with people he arrested and/or victims who needed treatment and would have seen first-hand that if anyone deserves a “bad-ass” label, it’s nurses. There is a huge connection between cops and nurses because of the time spent in proximity in the ER. Cops know better than most people that we see the worst of what disease can do and the worst that people can do to each other. 24/7 there are nurses witnessing tragedy and suffering that would make your head spin. And being “helpful and caring” in the midst of THAT.

    I wonder if the connection between Deeks and nurses is accidental or if one of the writers knows the connection between cops & nurses? Either way – the affinity for nurses totally fits the “strong women” theme!

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    • Dr. Brenda thank you so much for your comments! I clearly was too focused on the nurturing aspect of what nurses do, which is a bit different from the other women in Deeks’ life, whom I would not describe using that term. Even Hetty, who’s serving a somewhat maternal role, isn’t doing it in a classic tenderly supportive way. Nurses are nothing short of heroic, and your words are a spectacular answer to that last question and I’m really glad you posted them.

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  5. Reader1976 // March 3, 2014 at 11:16 PM // Reply

    Great analysis. Really in-depth and perceptive. And I enjoyed all the references of Deeks to the women in previous episodes. The photos are appreciated as well : )
    Deeks’s self confidence is solid and comes from his history of meeting adversity and taking on changes/challenges and succeeding. He overcame a horrible childhood, finished law school and after practicing law gave it up to be a cop to “put away the bad guys”. Hetty saw potential in him and recruited him as the “LAPD liaison” to NCIS which he has been successful. Which is why Hetty offered him a place at NCIS. I think his history of success makes him confident and not afraid that a strong women, be it intellectually or physically, would threaten his ego or sense of self. Deeks is accepting of his women whether they are strong or weak. I think that is one of his attractive qualities. And I enjoyed Dr. Brenda’s thoughts as well. Looking forward to the next analysis. 🙂

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    • Thanks Reader1976! I agree with everything you said about Deeks’ confidence and I like your theory that it stems from a history of successfully overcoming adversity. Hopefully one day we’ll find out a little more about exactly what happened to him once he shot his dad, and whether there were some other adults who filled a supportive role in his life and helped him get on the road to success.

      And credit for the photos goes to Colleen AKA DeeksFreak- thanks Colleen!

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  6. Ariana Cora Dobrin // March 3, 2014 at 11:49 PM // Reply

    An analysis of the character’s very clear, “DEEKS, an honest man, unselfish and loving.I love both the character and the actor.Eric is phenomenal.

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  7. Dr. Brenda // March 4, 2014 at 9:08 AM // Reply

    Just want to say thanks for the replies. I’m new here and feeling very welcome!

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  8. Glad to hear it! Getting other people’s input and ideas makes this much more fun.

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  9. Loved the article and totally agree that most of Deeks women fit this category. However, in my opinion, the exception to the rule here is Nicole Martindale. Granted we only got a couple of scenes with her but from what I saw, she didn’t seem to be anything like say… Kensi or Eva or Jess. Even Monica (the other girlfriend of Max Gentry) seemed more in line with the “Wonder Woman” type of woman than Nicole did.

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  10. jrwjr, I totally agree with you about Nicole- check out my theory on her in part one: http://wp.me/p41X2Y-Xx and let me know what you think.

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  11. anonkp, thanks for pointing me back to the part one of this interesting topic of discussion. This article was the first thing I read when I found this site the other day and it really wow’d me! I just love trying to speculate on our favorite NCIS LA character’s story as the show really hasn’t given us too much since Deeks was introduced. I’m still waiting for the episode that introduces us to Deeks mother’s story. Anyways, keep up the great work in these types of articles!

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    • Thanks jrwjr, glad you liked it. I guess we’ll just have to try to be patient and believe that someday we’ll get the full Deeks backstory.

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